Long Island venue guide

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Long Island wedding venues: waterfront inns, historic estates, and all-in packages

A Long Island wedding can mean two very different things. Out east, in the Hamptons, the North Fork, and Montauk, it's waterfront inns and historic houses where guests can stay the weekend. Closer to the city, it's estates, banquet halls, and all-inclusive packages that are easier to reach and usually cost less.

We've gathered details on 13 Long Island venues. Pick a starting point and Sage will rank them for your day, with cost estimates wherever the venue publishes its prices.

What should you budget?

Venues with catering for 100 guests

Use − and + to reprice every figure below.

$33k

Typical estimate

The median cost for Long Island venues that include their own catering.

$17k–$100k

Typical range

A very wide range. The waterfront inns out east sit at the top, and the all-inclusive halls closer to the city at the bottom.

These are our estimates, not quotes from the venues. They include service charges and tax when a venue lists them. Your date, guest count, bar, rentals, and staff will all change the final total.

Source: SagetheDate.com

Every filled dot is one Long Island venue that can host 100 guests, shaded by its own estimate on the same scale as the New Yorkguide's map; grey ones don't publish a venue-with-catering price. Outlined dots are venues in neighbouring regions.

Narrow it down

See which Long Island venues fit your guest count and budget, and why

Guests

100

By budget and guest count

Long Island wedding venues by budget and guest count

How many Long Island venues come in under common budgets for the venue and food, at the guest counts couples plan for most. Each row counts the venues that can host that many guests and publish a full price for the venue and the food, so the list gets shorter as it grows.

Long Island wedding venues under each budget, by guest count
GuestsTypical venue and foodUnder $15,000Under $25,000Under $35,000Under $50,000
50 guests$16k4 of 96 of 96 of 97 of 9
100 guests$33k1 of 93 of 95 of 97 of 9
150 guests$39k0 of 92 of 93 of 97 of 9
200 guests$38k0 of 50 of 52 of 54 of 5

Our estimates for the venue and food, including service charges and tax where the venue lists them, on a Saturday in peak season. Not quotes. A typical figure is shown only where at least five venues publish a price. On their cheapest published date, usually a weekday or a winter month, 2 more venues come in under $25,000 for 100 guests.

Long Island venues by price for 100 guests

Under $15,000
The Bayview
$25,000–$35,000
Allegria Hotel, Brecknock Hall
See which fit your guest count and budget

How venues price weddings

Two venues can quote the same number and mean very different things

Pick one to see what its price contains, what it leaves for you to buy, and what it typically comes to.

You pay for the space and their kitchen

Venues with catering

Venues publish their price in two ways: as a site fee plus a per-guest menu price, or as a bundled package (venue + food).

At100guests

$39k

typical for venues with catering

$19k–$100k

where 80% of these 8 venues land

What makes up the billTypical80% of venues
Catering5 of 8$22k$17k–$66k
Each line is typical for the venues that charge it separately, so they don’t add up to the figure above. At 6 venues drinks are priced together with the food, so they sit inside the Catering line rather than a separate bar charge.

And then you still buy

  • Bar, where it isn’t included
  • Rentals and décor beyond the basics
  • Every other vendor

Good if you

don’t want to worry about sourcing a caterer or any outside catering fees.

What you’d still need to find out

Whether drinks are inside the menu price or billed separately, and what the service charge and tax add at the end.

What changes the math here

Your date matters as much as your venue. Summer Saturdays are when Long Island is most in demand, and prices follow. Moving to a weekday or out of summer saves more here than in most of New York. The quote you compare still grows once fees and tax are added, and venues here tend to have firm rules about the day itself, so it's worth asking about both early.

On a weekday
33% less

Monday through Thursday, compared with the same venue on a Saturday. Across New York, it’s 20% less.

Compare weekday prices
Added on top of the price
+33%

Typical service charges, admin fees, and tax, compared with 26% across New York.

Compare full estimates, fees included
Rules that limit or ban
100%

Of the rules venues publish on sparklers, candles, confetti, and décor, compared with 82% across New York.

See each venue's rules

What kind of place

Start with the kind of Long Island wedding you want

Waterfront inn out east

Inns and hotels on the water in Hampton Bays, Montauk, and Greenport, usually with rooms for guests and the highest prices on the island. Ask how many rooms you get, what summer weekends cost against the off-season, and where you go if it rains.

4 of 13 venues here

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Historic estate or mansion

Old houses, gardens, and a museum estate on the North Shore and out east. Many rent you the space, so you'll hire the caterer and rentals. Ask which caterers you can use and what paperwork each vendor needs to send the venue.

6 of 13 venues here

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Banquet hall or package

Halls and restaurants closer to the city that sell one price for food, drinks, and the room, often the lowest prices on the island. Ask what the package leaves out and how many hours it covers.

3 of 13 venues here

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What different types of venues cost in Long Island

The same wedding costs different amounts at a barn and at a hotel — and so does the shape of the bill. Four ways to look at it, for 100 guests.

What just the space costs

The venue rental across every venue that charges one as its own line — whether or not they also sell you the food. Just the room, nothing else.

  • Hotel$15k (3)
  • Estate / Mansion$20k (3)
  • Inn$20k (3)
  • Beach$22k (4)
  • Restaurant$34k (2)

Every venue that itemises a rental, including the ones that cater. Venues quoting a single package over the room and the meal never name a room price, so they aren’t here — and this is a part of a bill, not a whole one, so it can’t be subtracted from the next chart.

What a wedding costs when the venue handles catering too

The whole bill — the room, the meal, and the fees on top.

  • Banquet Hall$19k (2)
  • Event Center$19k (3)
  • Estate / Mansion$33k (3)
  • Hotel$44k (3)
  • Restaurant$44k (3)
  • Inn$100k (3)
  • Beach$100k (4)

Venues behind each figure in brackets. A venue can be more than one kind of place, so it may appear in more than one row.

How much of the cost is for the space vs the catering

Every bar is one whole bill, so what changes across the list is the split. A hotel earns it back on the menu; a restaurant charges you for the space.

The roomFood and beverage
  • Hotel20% (3)
  • Inn34% (2)
  • Beach34% (4)
  • Restaurant50% (2)

Only the venues that price the room and the meal separately, with how many in brackets. Another 9 quote one package covering both, so there is no split to show for them.

What venues make you spend on food and beverage, at a minimum

The floor, not the bill — what you owe before anyone has chosen a menu. A food and beverage minimum, a bar minimum and a fee for bringing your own caterer are the same move in three costumes, so they are added up per venue and shown together.

  • Hotel$60k (2)
  • Beach$60k (3)
  • Restaurant$100k (2)
  • Inn$100k (2)

Only the venues that state a floor, with how many in brackets; silence is not a zero. A venue that says it has no minimum is counted at zero rather than left out. None charge an explicit outside-catering fee — in this corpus the minimum does that job instead.

Before you tour

Three decisions to make early

Out east or closer to the city

A wedding out east feels like a getaway, and guests often stay the weekend, but it costs more and can be a long drive, especially on summer weekends. Closer to the city, guests can come for the evening and head home. Decide which one you want before you start touring, since it changes the whole shortlist.

See venues across the region

Ask about requirements and rules

Many venues here have requirements you pay for or arrange yourself. Most often certificates of insurance from every vendor, event insurance and valet or managed parking. Sparklers, candles, confetti, and décor are also usually limited. Ask about all of it on the first call, so nothing surprises you later.

See each venue's rules
How Long Island compares with New York
  • Let you bring your own caterer25% vs 31%

    of venues that say either way (12 here)

  • Have rooms for guests on site38% vs 33%

    at least, of all venues (13 here)

  • Give you the whole property62% vs 34%

    at least, of all venues (13 here)

  • State a rain plan62% vs 51%

    at least, of all venues (13 here)

  • Require something extra46% vs 34%

    a planner, insurance, security or similar, of all venues (13 here)

What affects the cost of your wedding

Your date can change the price a lot

Wedding venue pricing is seasonal. 3 of the 13 Long Island venues we track charge differently depending on the day, and 5 charge differently depending on the month. Every figure below compares a venue with itself, so it says what moving your date does — whatever kind of venue you pick, and whatever the size of your wedding.

Day of the week

Months you’d consider

Peak months are selected to start. Tap any month to compare.

Saturday, peak season

The most expensive date most venues sell, and the date almost every published price assumes. Choose a different day or month to see what typically comes off.

How much less than its own most expensive month a typical Long Island venue charges, comparing Saturdays all year (5 venues price a season)
JanFebMarAprMayJunJulAugSepOctNovDec

Inviting fewer people saves you less than you’d think

5 of the 13 Long Island venues that can host 100 guests put a floor under what you spend — a minimum on food and drink, or a headcount they bill for. It is the one charge that feels worse the smaller your wedding is, and it is rarely made clear on other platforms that show venue pricing.

At100guests

3 of 5

would bill you above what your own 100 guests come to, by about $22k typically.

Bill above your count2 clear it

Most of them stop topping up from around 125 guests. Below that, inviting fewer people doesn’t lower the bill at these venues.

Cutting 20 guests takes $0 off the bill, even though they actually cost $2.2k — because of the minimum spend

What kind of floor, and how high

A venue can set more than one.

A minimum spend on food and drinkThe money you commit to their kitchen. Service charge and tax then stack on top of it.
$60ktypical

What gets added at the end

Taxes and fees mark up a Long Island quote typically by 33%

Every pricing model carries them. At the 6 Long Island venues that publish their fees, the middle result is 33%, with most landing between 22% and 36%.

Food & drinkVenue rentalAdministrative feeSales taxon the bill and on the fees
Solid lines are what a fee is always charged on; dashed lines are charged that way at some venues only. Sales tax comes last, on the bill and usually on the other fees too.
Various fees to considerTypical
  • Administrative fee4 venues

    23%

    Charged instead of, or alongside, a service charge — and usually taxed as well.

  • Sales tax5 venues

    8.6%

    Set by the state, and charged on the service charge too at most venues.

Dots are sized by how many venues charge that rate. The gold line is the median rate, and every fee has its own scale: read the spread within a row, not across them.

Places worth a closer look

Six Long Island venues to start with

These examples cover the island's inns, estates, and halls, priced in different ways. Open a venue to see its pricing, capacity, spaces, vendor rules, and other planning details.

Find venues that match your vision and budget

Describe your guest count, your budget, and anything you can’t compromise on. See a ranked list of venues, with why each one fits, trade-offs, and what to double-check.

Try:

Sage the Date reads each venue's own published details, including pricing, catering and alcohol rules, music curfews, rain plans, whether you get the whole property, and how many guests each space holds. Every estimate uses your guest count. When a venue doesn't say, we tell you instead of guessing.

Before you book

Three questions worth asking

  • How much less would the same wedding cost on a weekday or outside summer, and do we get the same spaces and hours?
  • Do all our vendors need to send you proof of insurance, and do we need event insurance or valet parking?
  • If it rains, where does the ceremony move, and does that space fit all our guests?
See all 13 Long Island venues we track
How this guide is built

Sage reads each venue's own published pricing and policies, puts different kinds of quotes on the same footing, and estimates the cost for 100 guests. If a venue doesn't say something, we treat it as a question to ask, not a no. Venues can't pay to appear or to rank higher here.